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Super Sweet Blogging Award

Especially Made has sweetened up my week.  She nominated me for the Super Sweet Blogging Award!  She writes one of my favorite blogs and I’m thrilled to get this from her!

In order for me to receive it,  I must follow some rules.  Here’s some sweet music to listen to while you read.

THE RULES:
20130518-010405.jpg1. Thank the Super Sweet Blogger that nominated you.
2. Answer 5 Super Sweet questions.
3. Include the Super Sweet Blogging Award in your blog post.
4. Nominate a baker’s dozen (13) other deserving bloggers.
5. Notify your Super Sweet nominees on their blog.

THE 5 SUPER SWEET QUESTIONS: (and my answers)
1. Cookies or Cake?   If I must choose, then cookies it is.
2. Chocolate or Vanilla?  Chocolate
3. Favorite Sweet Treat?  Coconut Meringue Pie
4. When Do You Crave Sweet Things The Most?  When I’m awake.
5. Sweet Nick Name?  Momma

Here’s my “Baker’s Dozen” of sweet bloggers who inspire me (in no particular order):

http://especiallymade.wordpress.com

http://godmadeknown.wordpress.com/

http://steverebus.com/

http://thehomeschoolmomblog.wordpress.com/

http://tworiversblog.com/

http://dynamicforce.org/

http://ihavenogreaterjoy.wordpress.com/

http://leadthechurch.com/  (this guy used to be my pastor)

http://www.beyondthecoverblog.com/

http://morningstoryanddilbert.wordpress.com/

http://rules4radicalparents.wordpress.com/

http://practicalpages.wordpress.com/

http://www.soyoucallyourselfahomeschooler.com/

Thank you Especially Made for the sweet award!

betty jo

Mothers Day Brunch

mothers day 1I miss my mom every day.  She’s been in heaven for twelve years.  I try not to be sad about her being gone, especially on Mother’s Day.  She would want me to celebrate, not mourn.   I love Mothers Day, the flowers, the special brunch, and cards from my kids, but oh how I wish she could be included more than with just memories.

Sometimes I allow myself to get a bit carried away with my imagination when I’m missing her.  I wonder what awesome things she’s doing up there.  Is she at a Mothers Day brunch in heaven?  I rationalize my wild thoughts, “Since there is a “Wedding Supper of the Lamb, and other mentions of heavenly feasts in the Bible, why not a brunch for mothers?”

I imagine what this brunch looks like.  Flowers of marvelous colors in silver vases.  And crystal bowls filled with fruit.  And bread.  And an angelic string quartet.  And maybe a dance floor for mother-son dances.  I did warn you that I get a bit carried away with my imagination.

I envision who is sitting at my mother’s table.  Eve, Mrs. Noah, Sarah, Rebecca, Rahab, Ruth, Naomi, Mary, Eunice, and Lois!  Wow!  A banquet hall filled with the sheroes (lady heroes) of faith!   All sharing their motherhood testimonies.

Someday I’ll have her introduce me to her friends.

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Happy Mothers Day!

betty jo

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Why And How

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When others learn that we do not buy curriculum, but that I design ours myself, they often stare at me as if I’ve grown a third eye, and  ask me, “Why?” or “How?”.    My answer to both questions is, “By the grace of GOD”.  However, upon request, I can explain a bit more.

We pulled our oldest out of public school kindergarten 16 years ago.  At that time we just used some cheap workbooks for language arts and math along with plenty of books to read to finish up that school year.

Over the following summer, I poured over curriculum catalogs taking in all the information I could.  I could not decide on anything and truthfully, we couldn’t afford anything either.  As August approached we still did not have curriculum.

That same summer our son went to Space Adventures Vacation Bible School.  His head stayed in outer space even when the week long program was over.  Outer space was his favorite topic of conversation and play.

We went to a used curriculum sale and I was talking to some experienced homeschool moms about our lack of school books when one of them asked my son, “What do you like to study?”  Of course he replied, “Outer space!”  He then shocked me with, “I’m going to start a space club!”  She then told him that astronomy was one of her favorite unit studies and a space club sounded like a marvelous idea.

I had to have these moms explain what a unit study was.  I had not seen anything like that in my catalogs.  She invited us to her house so she could show me how they did school.

Her coffee table was covered with library books and notebooks.  Apparently, her kids picked a subject they were interested in, and checked out everything the library had on it.  Then they read, bookmarked pages, and took notes.  They made trivia games and art projects that related to their topic.  Their spelling and vocabulary came from those library books too.  When they got tired of one study, they picked another. They were only spending money for paper and art supplies.  Those kids were smart.  Everyone seemed happy with their homeschooling. She even had a son who had graduated and was attending college.  Smart and happy and going to college is what I wanted for us, too.

These moms assured me that since I had at least graduated from high school,  I was capable to teach my  children what they needed to learn.  And that I could do it without spending hundreds of dollars. They told me I would want a large map,  dictionary, thesaurus,   grammar guide,   good pencil sharpener,  Bible and  Bible dictionary.  I mentioned that I did not have a Bible dictionary and could they recommend one.  One of these sweet moms went out to her car and got hers.  She gave it to me , not let me borrow but gave it as a gift!  She showed me how to use it for a space study.  “Look up a word such as “stars”, then look up the Scriptures for copy and  memory work.”

That August we founded the Space Adventure Club.  I even found a math workbook that had a rocket on the cover and cute space pictures on the worksheets.  We borrowed library books about the solar system and space travel.  We made a telescope, a solar system model and a mini planetarium.  We wrote and memorized Scriptures about stars. We learned of ancient ideas about the heavens.  We watched space themed movies. We researched space careers.    We sang space themed songs.  This unit study idea was working well.

The next study club was Nature Scouts, followed by a series of different clubs.  This is how we schooled for the first couple of years.  I had to add spelling as a separate class because my son was able to spell difficult words but was having trouble with the more common ones.  We picked up a used grades 3-12 spelling course and have stuck with that same one for all the years since.  We have also been given or bought some phonics readers as the other kids have started their road to reading.  We have added current events to our non-unit study list of classes.

There was one year when I made the mistake of comparing my homeschool to others. I thought what they were using would be best for us too.  That year we spent over $700 for three children  to learn with a “regular” curriculum.  We hated it!  The following year, we ditched the idea of regular curriculum and went back to our unit study approach.

It’s been years since we’ve called our unit studies clubs,  but our studies are still made like those were.  For the past six years I have designed our unit studies based on historical period timelines.  We have also added technology,  free web resources,  to how we homeschool.

So now you have my answers to “why” and “how” we homeschool like we do.

betty jo

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Youthful Tendency Disorder

It seems like everyday there is a news article explaining some new research, or treatments and therapies for disorders.  When I first saw this one, I thought ,”OH NO!   A new disorder, what now?”   Usually, I would have skipped over it,  but it was from The Onion, and I like the way they spin their “reporting”.

So my conclusion after reading about Youthful Tendency Disorder is this:   All of my children, even the 21 year old, have several symptoms of this condition.  I notice it most often during our homeschooling days, especially when it’s nice outside, or time for a grammar lesson, or after they  have read  an exciting story.  It’s probably in their genes, for both my husband and I have struggled with Youthful Tendency Disorder for years.  Until this article informed us, I did not realize just what is was that we have been “suffering” from.

I’m hoping that a cure for this “disorder” is never discovered!

Here’s the link so you may investigate this unusual disorder for yourself, and I hope you and your family have it also!   http://www.theonion.com/articles/more-us-children-being-diagnosed-with-youthful-ten,248/

albert-einstein“Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world.”
Albert Einstein

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Going

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“15 He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. 16 Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned.”   (Mark 16)

All my life I’ve heard of missionaries.  We have read many missionary biographies in our homeschool throughout the years.  I keep mission projects on my prayer list.  Our family fills a shoe box or two at Christmas time for Samaritan’s Purse and buys chickens from Gospel for Asia.  I might drop a little into the collection plate at church to help a visiting missionary.

I never thought I would be able to be obedient to the going “into all the world with the Gospel”, at least not in a hands-on kind of way.  I am a homeschooling, stay-at-home mom.  I was born , raised, and still live in Western Kentucky.  Our family does not even take vacations.

I have never imagined me in a conversation with the LORD like the one from Isaiah 6:8, “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?”  And I said, “Here am I. Send me!”  Never imagined it, until today.

I was checking my WordPress stats.  I clicked on “Views By Country” and saw this:

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Singapore FlagSingaporeHey, I am going into all the world!  Wow, my mind was blown away.  It never occurred to me that this blog would do that.  I don’t know the faiths of my readers, but in case you are not followers of Jesus Christ let me encourage you to investigate Him.  He left Heaven to come to us as a baby.  He lived a sinless life even though He was tempted over and over again.  He willingly died on a cross to take our place.  He rose from the dead having defeated death.  He promises eternal life to those who believe in Him and confess His name.  He is SAVIOR!  It does not matter what your past is or where you are now, He loves you and wants you to be His.  This is the Gospel, the Good News.  This is GRACE!Mark 16 continues, “17 And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; 18 they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”Dear LORD, I believe and I want to show these signs of a believer.  I would be thrilled and honored if YOU would let me be part of driving out demons, speaking in new tongues, and healing the sick with my hands.  As far as the snake and poison goes, LORD, I’d rather not, but Your will, not mine be done. I love You and trust You.  AmenIf anyone needs to discuss Jesus or has questions, please do so in the comments.  If I don’t have the answers you seek, I’ll find someone who does.betty joMMMButtonThriving-Thursdays1 button

 

Parental Rights

villageI do not want the government raising my children either, even when the media tries to make it sound like a good idea.

1 John 4:4  “Dear children, you belong to God. You have not accepted the teachings of the false prophets. That’s because the One who is in you is more powerful than the one who is in the world.”

God gave me my children.  They are mine.  I love them.  I know them.  I want them to be successful.  I can raise them.  I can educate them.  In fact, it’s my job and my responsibility to do so.  It is my right to do so.

The best resource I have found  for keeping me updated and informed about my rights as a parent is  http://www.parentalrights.org/

hsldaHave you read about the Romeike family, if not, you need to.  Click here http://www.hslda.org/courtreport/V26N2/V26N201.asp

In case you haven’t signed the latest petition protecting the Romeike family, please do so.  If our government will not help this family,  then I doubt they would help mine or yours. http://www.hslda.org/legal/cases/romeike.asp

It seems to me that the government would encourage homeschooling.  We do not add to the problem of overcrowded class rooms.   We save our country’s tax payers $16 BILLION!  http://ww2.onenewsnow.com/education/2013/02/15/nheri-23-million-homeschoolers-saving-taxpayers-$16b

betty jo

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Fixing My Gaze

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I’m distracted and tired.  I am over-committed.  Our house is a mess.  I have one of the longest to-do lists I’ve ever had.   We have more than our usual amount of extra activities on the calendar.  We only have five weeks left in our homeschool year and much more I still need to teach.    I am beginning to feel overwhelmed.  That is not a good feeling.

I talk to my Father about it all.  I ask Him for wisdom.  I ask Him for peace. I ask Him for help.   He answers me.  Proverbs 4:25,  “Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you.”

Looking straight ahead I see overload.  What is in front of me that I’m gazing at is simply too much for me hand handle.  I need a new plan of action.

This means I’ll have to say “no” to some activities, and saying “no” is very hard for me.  I’ll have to make two new to-do-lists, one of only priorities, and one to-do-someday.  We will take a few days off from our school work next week so I can get that priority list taken care of and get the house in better order.  This will add another week to our school year, but we’re homeschoolers, so it’s ok to do that.   It’s not going to be easy or fun, but I know it will be what is best.

How do you handle overload?  I am open to suggestions.

betty jo

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April – More Than Showers

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Acts 14:17  “Yet he has not left himself without testimony: He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.”

Many homeschoolers will be studying earth sciences this month.  Ours included.  We will be making a backyard weather station, planting some flowers, and doing some special projects and going on field trips for Earth Day.

April is more than a month for rain showers it is Autism Awareness month (around here, J9 makes sure we’re aware of the blessings of Autism every day).  It is also Children’s Book,  Jazz Appreciation, Global Child Nutrition, Poetry, and Frog Month.

As if these are not enough special themes to work into our monthly homeschooling plans, the April calendar contains many more special days, observances, activities, and historical remembrances. Here’s the complete list of what April offers for learning:

April 1-7:  Explore Career Options Week

1  April Fools Day (posted links here: https://stilllearningsomethingnew.com/2013/03/31/foolish-studies/),  1st photo of the sun (1845)

2  Peanut Butter and Jelly Day,  Hans Christian Anderson born (1805)

3.  Washington Irving born (1783), 1st Pony Express (1860),  Jane Goodall’s birthday (1860)

4   School Librarians Day

5  Read a Road Map Day,  Booker T. Washington born (1856)

6  North Pole discovered (Peary 1908),  Raphael born (1483)

7  No Housework Day, World Health Day, National Dare Day, Metric System Day

8  Ponce de Leon born (1460), Dick Turpin born (1739), International Roma Day

10  National Sibling Day

11 National Submarine Day

12  Holocaust Remembrance Day, Drop Everything and Read Day,  Paul Revere Day, Anniversary of 1st Space Shuttle launch

13  Guy Fawkes born (1570), Thomas Jefferson born (1743)

14-20  National Library, Astronomy, and International Whistlers Week

14  Titanic crash (1912)

15  Leonardo da Vinci born (1452),  Jackie Robinson Day, Death of Abraham Lincoln

16  Wilbur Wright born (1867)

17 Ellis Island Family History Day

18  San Francisco Earthquake (1906)

20  National Pineapple Upside Down Cake Day

21-27 National Coin Week, Safe Kids Week

21  Henry VIII became king of England

22  Earth Day,  Jelly Bean Day

23  St. George Day, William Shakespeare born (1564),  James Buchanan born

24  International Astronomy Day

25  World Penguin Day, Anzac Day

26  James Audubon born (1785), Pretzel Day

27  Freedom Day (So. Africa), Johannes Kepler born (1571), Ulysses Grant born (1822), Samuel Morse born (1791), Arbor Day

28  Poetry Reading Day,  James Monroe born (1758)

29  Duke Ellington born (1899)

30  Vietnam War ended (1975)

There is absolutely no way we can participate in all that April offers, but if it has anything to do with Earth Sciences or Middle Ages history, I’ll be adding it in with our homeschooling studies.

April blessings,

betty jo

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Foolish Studies

april-fools-day-graphicBeing Easter weekend, I’m a bit behind on working on our homeschool’s April activities and special days calendar.   However, with tomorrow being April Fools Day, I wanted to go ahead and share these fun links.

http://www.museumofhoaxes.com/ (be careful with this link, not everything is “child appropriate”)

http://spoonful.com/april-fools-day

Easy April Fools Pranks for Family to do at Home

http://www.enchantedlearning.com/crafts/aprilfool/

http://www.apples4theteacher.com/holidays/april-fools-day/

http://www.education.com/results/?q=april+fools+day

http://www.sheknows.com/holidays-and-seasons/articles/827335/best-april-fools-day-pranks-for-kids  (be careful on this site,  it only has this one blog that is for kids the rest is not child appropriate)

Be on the lookout for more April study ideas coming tomorrow!  No fooling!

betty jo

Silly Rabbit

 

silly-rabbitSpeaking of silly rabbits…Z7 loves jokes.  He reads joke books and writes them for for his homeschool  language arts lessons whenever I will allow it.  He loves to tell his jokes to his family, friends, neighbors, pastor, cashiers, and sometimes random strangers.  Z7 performed a “stand up” comedy routine at our homeschool support group/co-op’s talent show, and was a hit!

This past week, Z7 has entertained us with cute Easter jokes.  His favorites came from Activity Village. http://www.activityvillage.co.uk/easter_jokes.htm.   We printed these and he put them in plastic eggs for his friends at today’s egg hunt.

Z7’s top 3 favorite jokes for Easter:

How does the Easter Bunny keep his fur neat?  With a HARE brush!

Why did the Easter egg hide?  He was a little chicken!

What of kind books do bunnies like?  Ones with hoppy endings!

Hoppy Happy Easter,

betty jo